"Although feminists might argue that a power based on physical appearance is shallow, reclaiming a love for your body can be empowering, especially for those who are faced with innumerable reminders that they do not conform to the white heterosexual ideal. For femmes of colour particularly, affirming one’s beauty in the face of colonization’s internalized hate has revolutionary potential. By reclaiming femininity on their own terms, femmes of colour redefine the concept into an affirming gender expression that rejects both compulsory heterosexuality and white supremacy."
Yes! Being femme for me is all of this and an assertion of my womenhood, in a white supremacist society that will seek to invalidate it or take it away any way they (skinny bodies, white women, men, heterosexuals, able bodies) can.