"Killing oneself is, anyway, a misnomer. We don’t kill ourselves. We are simply defeated by the long, hard struggle to stay alive. When somebody dies after a long illness, people are apt to say, with a note of approval, “He fought so hard.” And they are inclined to think, about a suicide, that no fight was involved, that somebody simply gave up. This is quite wrong."

— Sally Brampton (via lungpeiling)

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"She was a genius of sadness, immersing herself in it, separating its numerous strands, appreciating its subtle nuances. She was a prism through which sadness could be divided into its infinite spectrum."

Everything is Illuminated by Jonathan Safran Foer (via lethifold)

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"The trauma said, “Don’t write these poems.
Nobody wants to hear you cry
about the grief inside your bones."

— Andrea Gibson (via clementinebarish)

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"There is no agony like bearing an untold story inside you."

— Zora Neale Hurston (via whatsatelephonebill)

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ombuddha:

When you begin to study Zen, you aim to attain realization. Your motive is good in so far as motive is concerned, but in your meditation you should aim at nothing. You may aim at realization to encourage yourself when you are not meditating, but beware of clinging entanglements. Encouragement is one thing, meditation is another. Do not mix them up. Carry your meditation as the eternal present, and saturate your everyday life with it.
Nyogen Senzaki.
Photo by Erin Dorothy O’Connor.

ombuddha:

When you begin to study Zen, you aim to attain realization. Your motive is good in so far as motive is concerned, but in your meditation you should aim at nothing. You may aim at realization to encourage yourself when you are not meditating, but beware of clinging entanglements. Encouragement is one thing, meditation is another. Do not mix them up. Carry your meditation as the eternal present, and saturate your everyday life with it.

Nyogen Senzaki.

Photo by Erin Dorothy O’Connor.

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January 9, 2013
and it all started with a simple question

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January 9, 2013

and it all started with a simple question

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January 6, 2013
and I constantly wonder how this magic is made

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January 6, 2013

and I constantly wonder how this magic is made

"There is in this world no such force as the force of a person determined to rise. The human soul cannot be permanently chained."

— W.E.B. Dubois (via wisdomorganic)

(via kemetically-afrolatino)

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December 28, 2012
and the music we create is enough to make the world dance wildly

connotativewords:

December 28, 2012

and the music we create is enough to make the world dance wildly

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December 21, 2012
it could be the end of the world, and I would still be content with this

connotativewords:

December 21, 2012

it could be the end of the world, and I would still be content with this

"To be truly in love we must be found out,” he said. “The one place where you really have to practice transparency is, obviously, with that person, because without that there is no love. You have to lay down your shield. That’s why so many dudes are bad at it. Because we’re told vulnerability is the antithesis of masculinity. And you wonder why so many of us have trouble."

Junot Díaz (via karanablue)

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"Compassion hurts. When you feel connected to everything, you also feel responsible for everything. And you cannot turn away. Your destiny is bound with the destinies of others. You must either learn to carry the Universe or be crushed by it. You must grow strong enough to love the world, yet empty enough to sit down at the same table with its worst horrors."

— Andrew Boyd (via charlenekaye)

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"

Gay and transgender youth, particularly gender nonconforming girls, are up to three times more likely to experience harsh disciplinary treatment by school administrators than their heterosexual counterparts.

As with racial disparities in school discipline, these higher rates of punishment do not correlate to higher rates of misbehavior among gay and transgender youth.

LGBT youth make up 13-15 percent of the juvenile justice system, even though they make-up only 5–7 percent of the population overall, and 60 percent of these youth are black or Latino.

This high rate of contact with the system is due in part to harsh school sanctions often based on their perceived sexual orientation or gender identity.

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Zero-tolerance policies perpetuate a school-to-prison pipeline for LGBT youths (via zeram)

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connotativewords:

December 11, 2012
You, you, you.
I’ve always made it all about you.

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December 11, 2012

You, you, you.

I’ve always made it all about you.

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December 6, 2012
but now it’s my turn
to mend her


how can something so far away be so close to me

connotativewords:

December 6, 2012

but now it’s my turn

to mend her

how can something so far away be so close to me